How to Persuade your Stubborn Teen with Michael McQueen
Episode Summary
Ever find yourself in a communication standoff with your teenager? They seem to have their minds made up, and nothing you say can change it. Sound familiar?
In this episode, bestselling author and change navigation expert Michael McQueen shares insights into understanding and influencing teenagers. He discusses the reasons behind teen stubbornness and the mistakes parents often make when trying to persuade their teens.
McQueen emphasizes the importance of empathy, curiosity, and open communication in building trust and grace with teenagers. He suggests strategies for negotiating with teens, setting boundaries, and problem-solving together. McQueen also highlights the significance of vulnerability and honesty in creating authority and respect.
The episode concludes with a practical takeaway of engaging in activities side by side with teens to foster connection and understanding.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Understanding the reasons behind teen stubbornness can help parents navigate communication challenges.
Empathy, curiosity, and open communication are key in building trust and grace with teenagers.
Negotiating with teens and involving them in decision-making can lead to better outcomes.
Vulnerability, honesty, and problem-solving together can create authority and respect in parent-teen relationships.
Meet Michael McQueen
Michael McQueen has spent the past two decades helping organizations and individuals navigate uncertainty and stay one step ahead of change.
Michael is a bestselling author of 10 books and features regularly as a commentator on TV and radio. His work has featured in publications ranging from the UK Daily Mail to CNN and the Huffington Post.
Having presented to over 500,000 people across 5 continents since 2004, Michael is a familiar face on the international conference circuit having shared the stage with the likes of Bill Gates, Mel Robbins and Apple co-founder Steve Wozniak.
Connect with Michael McQueen on Mindstuck.net | Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
Watch the Full Interview
Chapters
00:00 Introduction
01:57 Understanding Teen Stubbornness
03:12 Mistakes Parents Make in Influencing Teens
05:18 The Power of Understanding and Empathy
08:29 Choosing Battles and Setting Boundaries
10:07 Persuading Teens to Do Homework
12:17 Fear of Teens Making Poor Decisions
14:30 Building Trust and Grace
15:06 Negotiating Video Game Time
17:13 Problem Solving Together
19:20 Motivation and Perseverance
20:23 Avoiding Manipulation
25:46 Creating Authority and Respect
28:01 Taking Control of Engagements
29:51 Practical Takeaway: Doing Activities Side by Side
31:27 Conclusion
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